I don't know Lara from Adam and as you said, I sincerely hope she gets the help for whatever trauma is persisting in her life. She is a human being and I wish her to get the support she needs to get better. But right now, we are in the grips of a very dangerous combination of factors. Ignorance of the general voting public, a willful manipulation of that group by a well funded right wing media ecosphere, and a group of downtrodden individuals who want people to feel as equally miserable as they do. When people say that cruelty is the point, it truly is. They want people to feel the pain and anguish that they do. Hence why migrants and children in cages, family separations, repression of LGBTQ youth, etc. doesn't bother the MAGA crowd. They are angry, hurting, brainwashed, and desensitized all at the same time.