I have a friend who works for Harmon so I get my stuff from him. I have buds that are configured so that you can hear the music and words really well yet at the same time pick up any outside sounds. They don't look like air pods, sticking down your ear like that, just plugs.
I also have a couple of wired sets that are bluetooth. The wires just connect the earpieces together. I actually prefer those as they are easier to keep track of. Like on an airplane I can just take them out and sort of tuck them in my shirt collar to stay in place. If I have them on and someone needs to talk I just take one out and let it hang there rather than take it out and then have to hold it....
My son has lost 3 pair of earpods.
Because of the discount available to me they are really disposable. I can get an $100 set for $15.