I've had to be a parent advocate and fight with school boards and admins.... it's not fun. Have spoken up at meetings. However I cringed so often at my peers even those who were on "our side". They'd make arguments that have nothing to do with the problem we're trying to solve. They'd mock. Make threats. My favorites were "We're calling Fox 2 Problem Solvers!" or "We're calling Feiger". We also had some people who were like "Dude, our state rep comes into our coffee shop, I'll talk to him."
A few times I would talk to our superintendent offline and say something like "I'm not with them... that's not how I do business".