This is a really interesting thread and kinda mirrors a little bit of how I've been thinking about our situation as a family....
On the whole, Texas has been good to me and in many ways isn't the stereotype that people make it out to be.... OTOH, the politics of this place was a lot more reasonable when I first moved here in 2012 than it is now, where, like other red states, culture war is King. It was easier to ignore and not think about as much back then, nowadays politicians here pass more and more draconian bills that wouldn't have gotten a hearing 10 years ago. All of this despite the state being closer electorally than it was in the past as well.
Politics would never be the primary reason to consider relocating, but at the moment, it definitely isn't helping the argument to stick around either.