1) sure. but its a democracy so if the law isnt what you want it to be, you try to mobilize voters to change the law.
or, you could rely on the supreme court to make the law for you. which most people love when they agree with the court and hate when they dont. liberals and conservatives both.
2) ok. but you dont think killing a human fetus is murder. i get that. but to someone who does, it doesnt matter who makes the choice because the choice is murder or not murder.